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Mark Klarich's avatar

Thanks, John. Very grateful here for your continued contact with these people and your willingness to report in a coherent, thoughtful manner. Of course, in my case, you may be preaching to the choir. In the mid 70's my black wife (and, therefore, 7 black children--yes, I'm white) moved out of Chicago to Vermont, looking to raise our family there. Vermont was chosen for many reasons. However, near the top of the list was its proximity to Canada. We were very concerned that the same forces that killed unarmed people in their beds (in Chicago) would eventually become a dominant force in the US and we would be at risk.

Most of my children are still in Vermont. And I am writing from there. So, whatever risks we imagined were somewhat overblown. Eventually, our "country" neighbors came to accept her and our "crazy" ways. (of course, there is more to the story, but this will suffice for the present)

And I presently have a significant deposit with a Montreal law firm to assist in arranging the move to Canada, should that become necessary.

But how to know? How did my childhood friend's father know to pack jewels inside of chocolates and flee Germany in the late '30's? I never was able to ask him. However, I rely on folks who are thoughtful and of a similar mindset to help me be informed. I could be in Canada within a few hours.

Some have opined that the '60's were halcyon times. I lived through them, married when we were illegal in many states, was shot at in Wyoming, and much, much more. These times are significantly more difficult. (and it is not because I'm much older and less able to adjust)

And would escaping to Canada do any good? What about my neighbors? Children? Grand Children? Friends? And a significant portion of Burlington VT? Not sure that fleeing is an ethical and loving solution. Not at all sure.

Making music. Supporting those who live in fear. Holding myself in the dark of the night. Riding bicycle--fast. Voting. Talking. Preparing for the possible collapse of the Republican Party--not really crazy about a one party state. Trying to stay reasonably informed and still work, play music, be with family and friends, etc. Life, love, heart. Lots of heart.

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quatrezoneilles's avatar

The same thing happening again, as it did with racism. "I can't be a racist since racists are bad people and I'm a good guy".

Just substitute the F-word.

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